you once though that if a girl that actively search for a man is interested by you, it only mean she search for a emotional filling. and she dont really love you.
i understood later that love can be builded out of a loveless couple.
for the same reason, fidelity is not when she dont see anyone, but when she return to you.
I dont speak about she fuck and return, i say, she have a social life, but she is with you.
She is not faithfull if she feel ugly, or unavailable. she is stuck with you.
true fidelity is whe she have the choice, you have to let her the choice, and if you are both awesome, she will choose you.
Love dont happen when one person meet an awesome other, it happen when two people become awesome together.