______________________________________________________________________________ tongue ring this little jewel that no one need to know but still not unconvenient to show. even people who dont like them will be curious when they notice it and will look a lot to confirm its existence if the notice it. It basicely drag attention to your mouth and made people remember your lips and wonder how it is to kiss you. it hint a rigorous hygiene for those who know what it is. it hind a pain resilience, mean you must be physicaly and mentally strong to do this. its fucking sexy and hint awesome cuni if you look down , roll one ball on a lips say hi with mouth wide open hard to find flirt technic for men but i will manage ______________________________________________________________________________ Spot someone ready for being met. people bored of a conversation feet pointig another dieection looking arround sobing saying yeah well... _____________________________________ science of eye contact. You never kept eye contact with anyone. You did only because you were interested in the eye of the other Or satring contest.or the first kiss with a girl always started that way. But eye contact is the nerve of the war in seduction. thing you always missed. You must find what your eye contact natural avoidance meant to the other. And learn to read emotion in the eye of the other. five personality trait theory: people who score high on neuroticsim will often avoid eye contact. the five personality trait: opennes to experience : curious/inventive vs consistent/cautious conscientiousness : organized/efficient vs carless/easygoing extraversion : well you know you are introvert agreableness : friendly/compassionate vs analytical/detached neuroticism : sensitive/nervous vs secure/confident Then it mean that my habit to avoid eye contact clearly communicated my inner struggle. It showed that i was unstable inside. And completely not confident. When you are angry, you keep eye contact, in a scary way. you frigten people out. You have scary and powerfull eye. you must use that power. you experienced a big change in other people attitude by keeping eye contact. You feel more in control of the situation and more listened than ever. #interest-o-meter basicely, pupil will expand on interest and retract on boredom. easy indicator for girl interest. #interest in conversation intermittent gaze imply that the converstion is important longer gaze will tell the target that the relation between both side is more important dans the conversation. Friend will gaze more often than strange, even more often when love. #domination intense eye contact may tell the other that you are trying to dominate him its percieved as rude, hostile, condesending. #uncaring to few mean you are uneasy, unprepared, insincere, lack of caring #people will be attracted to people who look in the eyes it even apply to cartoon rabbit on cereal box, most often chosed when the image look the buyer in the eye #shame, embaras eye contact tend to reduce on those subject #admiration eye contact tend to increase #relation-o-meter lenght of eye contact is determinant of the relation between two people #female communicate more with eye contact than male male more often avoid it #eye contact tell about lie for children they will avoid eyecontact when liying adult will consciously compensate in eye contact when liying when speaker actualy seek eye contact while talking, it can be percieved as sincere #female with more dilated pupil will be judged more attractive. tested on photoshoped picture #distance after the right amount of eye contact its akward in the elevator because everyone is in other personnal space but six feet away is different #delicate conversation topic imply reduced eye contact like priest in the confessionnal. #conversation task imply more eye gaze like when the doctor ask you question. he gaze at you. #when someone seek attention will gaze 70% of time when talking will gaze 40% of time when listening #people look more often at people they like and less often at people they dont like. #odd and hard to get eye gaze mean psychological problem _____________________________________________ how to walk in a sexy way walk slow look every detail like if you enjoy life keep you head up enter e room as if you own it. you will look powerfull and sensual. fuckin sexy ___________________________________ @2016-08-04 once i was awkward with girl i fou d cute after a general assembly for student contest in 2012. i got aboard a bus with a nice guy and his sexy blonde girl friend. he fire me the green argument i explode they laugh at me. and ive been seduced by her thong piercing i should have said . oh with that piercing you just make me forgot what i was talking about. what is your name another time at 2016 deserre get together. emily hugged me with prolonged contact. she was holding my anckle while looking at me while i wasnt holding her at all. iv panicked. i should have took her hand off gently and let them slide off my hand slowly. maintaining contact till the finger. but i was just really shy some time after the trip i runned to the drugstore to buy a bus pass. i had to wait for a clerc to fetch it. while that iva talked with the cashier who must have 17 . she was darker skined than caucassian . long black hair. i complimented her about it and we talked. it was perfect. _______________________________ how to behave dont just wait for a question. ask some. being proactive is sexy. related to confidence there are right and wrong time to touch. but it must happen if you want her to think about you once you left. no prescripted answer. its boring _______________________________ she talk about her ex and how awful he was dangerous . if she release her anger with you. you will be labeled to that anger give her something to break and symbolise him as her awful ex. be empathic and neutral he must realy hurted you bad. have this. it represent him and destroy it. maybe she will release her anger and once its broken you toss it away say. hes gone. dont let him make your life unhappy. or she will just say no. and then maybe she still care about him in many case you will be associated with sane equilibred thinking. a release for her. it will avoid you the friend zone ____________________________ she have a boy friend dont woory all good girl have boyfriend. if she still hang out with, it is not a problem ask her to tell you how it felt the first time and be attentive. she may refeel the memory while looking at you. better if you happen to respecfuly touch ____________________________ line between flirt on purpose and flirt innocently all gay joke you make with your male friend are inocebt playfull flirt some people just flirt with everyone as a nornal social interaction. doing it ecery time you see like a routine is nothing you can do it without your friend of partner tell that it mean something a touch longer than necessary for the joke tell you intimate secret a prolonged eye contact only with you a mimicry ____________________________ line between flirt and creep Barista, they are mostly cute leave your number on the reciep, cost nothing, imply nothing, can still go to another cofee shop if it turn bad. can also compliment her, or other tlak that are not related to her job. she can only turn you down or simply notreally participate on the conversation in become creepy when you go so often that you dont enjoy being there anymore and you are so shy that she ask you to repeat your ordre because your are to quiet. admit it you did it often. ____________________________________ is she flirting? -sometime they flirt with a friend but only when you look at her, yes its dumb and turn off, but sometime it work. Its teasing -she keep walking by, she is trying to make you notice her. she is also want you to look at her like if it was unintended. like giving you the chance to make a first move -if she is doing a sexy thing with her lips, drinking with a straw, touching them with finger, bite bottom one, smoke like a femme fatale or apply lipstick in front of you is probably intended. Lips are one of the most sexy part of a woman,of course she will try to draw your attention to her mouth. -she try to be alone with you. like bringing you outside. The more the reason seam silly, the more likely to be flirt is. -the most sincer form of faltery is mimicry. she will hold her glass like you. do thing like you. interest into what interest you. girl are exactly like boy. It can be a sign of infatuation. -playing with her hair, they are their primiary weapon, the one their mother taugh them. if she as long hair, and play with them when you are in the same place. maybe -she touch you, especialy your forearm and wrist. sliding finger innocently. grabing your hand for silly reason. -eye contact. she look at you then somewhere else, or look into your eyes for a second and stare a little then .eye contact. she look at you then somewhere else, or look into your eyes for a second and stare a little then . -she enter your personal space. -talking to you, she is litterally want to know about you. Flirt dont neccessary mean i want you. but more i want you to notice me, i want you to like me. i want you to find me pretty. i want to play. i __________________________________________________ Fractionation one evil technique is based on freud ressearch. Its names fractionation. It is a serie of small act that sum up in a desired emotional state first dont let her think you are out of her league. second, make sure it is a suspense, she is not sur you are interrested. the more she wonder if you are interested or not, the less she will think if she is interested into you or not. it s a push pull game, for a second you seam interrested then you are nonchalant. polarised emotional conversation a sequence : positive -> negative -> positive -> negative emotion like sado who like sequence of pleasure pain repeat ex : ask her what make her happy, what make her sad, an happy memories, a sad memory ex : i remember my old friend whom we [fun to tell memory] , it is so sad he is not alive anymore. as long as she think you are maybe out of league, or you appear on a pedestral, she will be interested as long as she is not sure if you are attracted , she dont control the relation this technic is unfair, make sure you are respect full and only use it to drag attention there is danger that she grow a limerence. make sure to leaver her in a better mood than when you arrived. ____________________________________________ boyfriend destroyer technic misseading significabt other inhibitor but it doesnt work for long term . only for having sex with a committed person. the idea is to stay on her side and make her realise that she will only have him for the rest of her life. and tell her a romantic escapade she will miss because of this. all this by being her boyfriend side. ask her what is an ideal realtionship. and she will start to compare how her relationship is not deeam one. you can change the subject by asking her dream vacation destination. to make her dream about romance. you dont try to destroy her relation but makenhernrealise she is stuck with a man that is not perfexct. without even attacking her relationship. it must come from her. when to use: she told you, i have a boyfriend. but still hand out with you. or she already flirted a little and said that then continued. it is possible that her commitment is undestroyable but also possible that she search a way out of her relationship or that she is ignoring issue or simply she have no boyfriend at all all of the above except the first should be interpreted as, I chalenge you! related to fractionation. its evil off course. conversation patern 1# you dont need to convince me that you are attractive. i dont make my mind that way. you put her in a situation were she try to impress you. 2# its ok. i dont want to be your boyfriend. i prefer to spend good time with you without stress or headhatche. it imply she have stress in the relation. but it is not stated. it let her think its her idea. 3# Of course all attractive person are expected to be with someone who fill all her need. what is your favorite vacation destination? i.ply she must have all her need covered (impossible) in tbe relation then change subject. make her consider if her relatjon is really fullfiling. the expected result is that she argue about how her boyfriend is the one. and you are arguing with her you encourrage her to be forever his. this will make her reconsider commitment. i am pretty sure that i had been tested on that many times. i also think i saw that in a movie called Eyes Wide Shut by Kubrick. "when a gentleman try to seduce nicole kidman and it lead to relational issue with tom cruse" _________________________________________________ stop trying to seduce me ! this is a simple move. the idea is to make her ask herself the question. do i want him. its halfway path from "i never noticed him" to "i love him" . notice mean consider as potential. you will be considered whether she want or not. you will make her thing about you. "why he though i was seducing him?" "did i inavertly gave him a sign?". you create a stress that you controle. she will be disturbed by your presence. you will make her stress. "i will be cold as ice next time ill meet him" "let see if hes ontome ?" "i will make it clear?" whatever the option. you will be considered. stay above it and she will have a crush on you.